Shawnda channelFrom Barnet (London)
Morghan: Kids do have to be in the mix to see if the relationship is going to work. Meeting the parents 3. As much as I grieve with James and his family on sad days, I've also had a hard time coping with his loss on great days. You get the idea.
Put the cynics and haters on ignore -- their bitterness reflects their own choices and reality, not yours. But I also think a lot about how I want my kids to see me in loving relationships with other people — men, friends, etc. He may be considering: How far along are you in the relationship? I didn't yet know enough about his life or about grief to understand his personality or the dates that would be difficult for him. You are human.