Julianne channelFrom Kensington (London)
Was it me that drove him back to her? Where is he in the legal process? Any sincere dating coach would have pointed that out. He says he is ready to move on his ex was unfaithful to him. We had not had intimate contact for a decade.
In a perfect world, there would be no divorce. But in today's world, where divorce is the norm, you might want to reconsider. The bottom line is that going through a divorce requires a lot of him — he must grieve, heal, hash through legalities, potentially adjust to single parenting and financial limitations, as well as rediscover a new sense of who he is today.