Elfreda channelFrom Barnet (London)
In your shoes I would mainly be concerned about the student if something went wrong-- in the relationship, in his career, or some combination of the two. At football games, students from across the University join forces within the cheerleading squad to form a human pyramid. Many people on AskMe post relationship questions anonymously to keep that out of their posting history. That goes double when you are no longer employed by them.
In addition, he points to the fact that graduate students are not granted gate access to the residential colleges. This policy is not intended to discourage consensual intimate relationships unless there is a conflicting professional relationship in which one party has authority over the other as described below. Such relationships are inappropriate. In such a case, the faculty or other academic staff member must promptly notify their department head, dean, or other supervisor and must recuse themselves from any academic authority over that student or other learner.