Olive channelFrom Swindon (Wiltshire)
The thing about attraction is everyone is attracted to different looks and sometimes you become more physically attracted to a person as you get to know and like their personality. Still, when an adult relationship ends badly, at least the wounded party knows from having weathered other disappointments that the all-too-familiar hollow feeling and veil of depression will inevitably lift. While a woman of 15 or 16, if she's been trained for a long time looking after her younger siblings, in their eyes she might be ready for marriage. The person you're with should always respect your right to say no.
Therefore, your daughter of 16 years may be involved with a far older man due to the basic reason that she sees him as a perfect replica of paternal love and attention. The person you're with should always respect your right to say no. But it will, and probably sooner than you think. Create clear guidelines about online romance.